I have just begun to move past my mourning period. It took me a while but I've got there. I was about to break and stop playing the game. I played by the rules in the book thinking those were the only rules that applied. Now I know that there were unwritten rules that were unknown to many of us but know that "the CAT is out of the bag" I now know how to play its game. Let's see what happens to that CAT when it has to face off with a TIGER.
so. . . 1-Breath in.
2-Breath out.
3-"let go".
4-know ALL the rules of the game.
I back and better than before. You can try and keep this TIGER down but know this you will never break its spirit.